3 Other Reasons Why You Should Manage Your Anger
All the time you hear about how your anger affects you. But anger affects the people around you as well.
Your anger hurts the people around you this is how
They need to keep their distance from you…
There are people who really do care about you. Well at least most of you.
The problem is there are people who love you and really would like your company. These are the ones who see you as a special person. But they stay away so that they can protect themselves from you. They know that you are capable of hurting them, or you might just be anti social. So for their emotional health and personal safety, they stay away from you.
When you are angry you can cause the people who love you to feel as if they are not even alive inside.
Angry people make other people angry
The smart people would stay away from you for one big reason. Your anger without a doubt would make them angry too.
Just like happiness, sadness, and disappointment, anger is just an emotion. And because it is just an emotion, it is easily transferred from one person to another. That is just the way that emotions work, emotions are contagious.
So if I know that you are angry and I go to be around you if for only five minutes, knowing that I run the risk of having my entire day ruined, how smart a person does that make me.
Angry people can destroy a child’s entire life
Maybe you know already that children learn how to act angry in a very short space of time.
When your child looks at you and learns to act angry like you do, you have without question made his life more complicated. The reason why is because if he does not unlearn this awkward behavior he will only learn how his destructive behavior can be made worse.
What you will end up with is a little person who when grown, is likely to experience every problem that people get from having uncontrolled anger. The only difference is that his problems will happen to him while he is younger. Which also means that anger will have a greater impact on him when he becomes an adult than it did for the person he learned to be angry from?
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