Success Is Not Something To Be Afraid Of
It is well documented that many people fail to achieve their goals in life due to the phenomenon known as “fear of failure” but are you aware that a major factor that is often overlooked, is a state known as “fear of success”?
Many therapists treat fear of failure. It is very common. But, what about the phenomenon known as fear of success?
It is possible that you suffer from this numbing condition in your life. We must identify it.
Studying and trying to implement self-improvement techniques and/or personal development tools but your life does not improve or may even get worse.
Maybe you set soft weak goals and accept less than you really deserve.
You start new projects full of enthusiasm and optimism but wane in your efforts or stop short before you have completed them.
Are you a pessimist? Do you expect the worse outcome even when things seem be going your way?
Do you see yourself in any of these descriptions?
The fear of success can also make you behave in ways that hold you back. Look at the list below. These are the symptoms of the fear of success.
Procrastinating is a real sign. If you are avoiding the tasks that need to be finished to move you in the right direction towards success, you are showing signs of fear of success. Most of us suffer to some extent, from this condition, but some do more than others.
Personal development should be a major focus in your life. Part of your personal development should include training yourself to do the little things every day that will move you ever so closer to reaching your long term goals. If you are trapped by procrastination. Escape! Do it by taking small baby steps and actions today, tomorrow and every day. You must take action, because this habit is key to your personal development.
Can’t see the forest for the trees! – this is almost the opposite of procrastination but has the same effect on your personal development. The aforementioned saying is well known but have you ever given it real consideration?
Don’t get caught up in your plan believing that it is more important than the materialised goal! For many years I got caught in this trap. I started to think and act as though my plan was more important than my end result and thus missed many opportunities to alter my path and reach my goals more quickly! Let go of your ego and allow the Universe to show you a quicker route to your goal. Remain flexible.
Never wait until the perfect ime to act or begin. It will never come.
Again ACTION is the key to the door to success. Taking small steps forward are better than taking none or waiting to see if your foot is landing on the right spot! Even if your actions take you away from your goal you have at least gained insight and knowledge about what does not work!
Are you a perfectionist? This will also get in your way. If you need things to be perfect, you will procrastinate. Things are never perfect. You can always adjust and improve as you go along. Do not wait for perfection before moving towards your goals.
Are you focusing on the obstacles? Are you one of those people who constantly see the brown stuff ahead instead of the green pastures? Be an optimist and not a pessimist. Sure, it is okay to see the challenges ahead, but problem solve to move past them.
Look at the challenges ahead and figure out ways to overcome them. Ask yourself, “How can I best deal with this challenge and move past it?” Have confidence that when challenges arise, and they will, you can overcome them.
Enjoy life! Challenges will come and go, but eventually, if you keep taking action towards your dreams and goals the things you fear will disappear and you will be that closer to a happy, fulfilled, successful life. Put away your fear of failure and success and make it happen. You deserve it!
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