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		<title>Be Lovable In Order To Be Loved</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 19:40:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Queenie Ang</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We have to be well prepared before starting the search of love. All the self-help books tell us to be fresh and clean, to put on suitable outfits and to upload a charming profile picture to the Internet. But there is one ingredient, the magic, which cannot possibly miss. But not the denotative "magic". It is something beyond the visual sense.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We have to be well prepared before starting the search of love. All the self-help books tell us to be fresh and clean, to put on suitable outfits and to upload a charming profile picture to the Internet. But there is one ingredient, the magic, which cannot possibly miss. But not the denotative &#8220;magic&#8221;. It is something beyond the visual sense.</p>
<p>The key to love is happiness. People are attracted to happy persons who have high self-esteem. Be the happy person you have always wanted to be. If waiting for Mr. or Miss Right doesn&#8217;t work, maybe you should be proactive this time. Throw away all the clutters in life and reign over your very own life. Get yourself a therapist or counselor if there are issues which have been bothering you for years. Use your happiness to find more happiness.</p>
<p>Be Well-balanced</p>
<p>How much romance weighs in life is not arguable. Regardless of its heaviness though, one must not let it engulf your entire life. The kind of relationship you want should fit your lifestyle and beliefs. If you are a workaholic, the quality time spent with your partner shall be reduced. If you are a family person, having a demanding job will drive you nuts. </p>
<p>What do you value most? Are you reciprocating enough time and energy? Qualities to create, to connect with the universe and the nature enable a well-balanced relationship with yourself and therefore a better relationship with your partner.</p>
<p>Be Emotionally Honest</p>
<p>People are often too shy or too proud to share their failures, worries and fears. Many feel uncomfortable talking about their unpleasant experiences or feelings, much than to confessing love. Lack of communication or exchange of genuine words will cause a relationship to deteriorate. As a good partner, one should stop second thinkings and dare to believe. The private sharing is one of the most wonderful things happen between two lovers.</p>
<p>Confession is the first step towards emotional honesty. You and your partner must work together to maintain that kind of honesty. It is hard work but you will know it is all worth it when you find you two achieve a magical intimacy.</p>
<p>An equal relationship</p>
<p>True love is build upon fairness. Neither you nor your partner should play the dominant role. You are individuals who have your own desires, goals and problems in life. While you are taking care of your partner, your partner should be taking care of you as well. I am not suggesting a strict division of resources here. But the selfishness and selflessness must be well-balanced. If one spend more, the other ought to spend less. If one want to do this and the other want to do that, the couple have to discuss, perhaps taking turns or something to settle the differences in wants.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re noticing problems with equality in your relationship, start by cleaning up your side of the street. Are there ways in which you aren&#8217;t treating your partner as an equal? Without trying to change your partner&#8217;s behavior, act in an equal and positive way. In a secure attachment, partners show love by each other not as divine beings on pedestals, nor as playtoys to be used and thrown away, but as equals, capable of independent feelings and choices.</p>
<p>Make agreements</p>
<p>People in true love do no make decisions on their own, much less make decisions for others like dictators. When they make choices, they take benefits of the two persons into consideration. If there is disagreement, they will work things out and try to reach  consensus. One has to be flexible and willing to accept changes, for real love gives you lessons and you have to pass them to be truly loved.</p>
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		<title>How To Plan A Baby Shower For An Adopted Baby</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jul 2010 18:23:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Fred Bowers</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are familiar with a couple who are considering adoption and they are due to bring their bundle of joy home at any moment. One of the prudent things to do is to celebrate the new member of the family by throwing them a baby shower.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you are familiar with a couple who are considering adoption and they are due to bring their bundle of joy home at any moment. One of the prudent things to do is to celebrate the new member of the family by throwing them a baby shower.</p>
<p>As with having their own baby, adoption also awards the couples with the equivalent enjoyment that comes with being parents.</p>
<p>On the other hand, there are vital factors to reflect on when you are planning for the baby shower, given the &#8220;unique&#8221; conditions surrounding the new addition to the family. In so doing, you and your friends will have fun; with utmost understanding to the situation plus the joy that the child will bring to the new parents.</p>
<p>While planning a baby shower, one of the many different factors considered would be whether or not the new parents would wish for an announcement to be made as some do not like publicizing their adoption.</p>
<p>The date is another significant issue to be considered if a party is decided upon as some parents may want some few weeks to settle in with the new addition to the family.</p>
<p>&#8220;Safe &#8220;gifts like diapers, feeding items and nursery dcor should be ideal for adoptive parents. Therefore, it would be important to consider this by asking the guests attending the shower to carry along such items.</p>
<p>In addition to this, the new parents may be requested to register their child in a baby registry. This would give the guests a better idea of what gifts to bring.</p>
<p>It is fundamental, for example that you shun playing games that are meant for the naturally expectant women, like the game of &#8220;How Big is Mom&#8217;s Tummy,&#8221; as adoption is still a sensitive issue.</p>
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		<title>The Best Things That Internet Dating Has To Offer</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 18:06:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abigail Darlington</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It seems a trend nowadays for people to try finding their partners with online dating services. This is one way of shedding your insecurity and trying to find your perfect match online. If things do not turn out the first time you can just try again without feeling embarrassed or ashamed as nobody else will be aware of your situation.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems a trend nowadays for people to try finding their partners with online dating services. This is one way of shedding your insecurity and trying to find your perfect match online. If things do not turn out the first time you can just try again without feeling embarrassed or ashamed as nobody else will be aware of your situation.</p>
<p>By using internet dating you can try to build a relationship with somebody without passing judgment on them first.</p>
<p>You can be a lot more open and frank when asking and answering questions as you are not physically meeting them. As there is no face to face contact initially, you will feel more at ease.</p>
<p>We all have been guilty of misjudging people just because they looked a little different or because they dress different to ourselves. By getting to know somebody before you meet them it can take away a lot of unnecessary discrimination.</p>
<p>The online dating sites have had bad reputations in the past due to certain individuals abusing the rules of the sites. But there are many of these sites that try to be the best sites possible in matching people.</p>
<p>There are some sites on the internet that actually let you know exactly which sites are fraudulent and which sites are genuinely there to help people find their perfect match.</p>
<p>Online dating when done correctly can be quite fun and rewarding. But you must try to remain vigilant at all times and not give away your personal information just because somebody asks for it, especially if you have only just met them.</p>
<p>Once you have established a true trusting friendship with somebody then if you wish to you could commit to letting them know more about you. If you think that somebody sounds too good to be true then the chances are that your feelings are right. Always trust your judgment and take care but also have fun.</p>
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		<title>Tips On Making-Up After A Hurtful Break-Up</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 11:11:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hazel Palin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are those situations when you have to tread with urgency and make decisions with incisiveness. One of these is when your fianc has put you on the "junk items" box. At such a time, it is justified to sort things out sooner than later.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are those situations when you have to tread with urgency and make decisions with incisiveness. One of these is when your fianc has put you on the &#8220;junk items&#8221; box. At such a time, it is justified to sort things out sooner than later.</p>
<p>Consider taking the following steps ASAP:</p>
<p>Avoid melting down! The trick here is to get your act together and stay composed. This is not a time to get anxious and do desperate stuff. Otherwise, you may do something drastic and irrational to the sense that it will only let the parrots out of the cage. Take this as an opportunity to display mental strength.</p>
<p>To be honest, facing a breakup in your marriage is not an easy period to go through. You are better off focusing on yourself and your positives and use this as your selling points. Do not be caught dead in a pity party.</p>
<p>Keep your communication lines open and be sensitive to each other&#8217;s opinions and concerns. You may also want to put yourself in her shoes at this time. This will take you miles ahead in establishing that connection.</p>
<p>Make it your business to establish good sentiments once again. Avoid any knee-jerk reactions that may push you further down the pecking order once your marriage is cut short.</p>
<p>You should keep working at winning back her approval once again, however bleak the circumstances may seem.</p>
<p>As much as your back is on the wall, do not wash your hands off this matter just yet. Faint heart never won fair lady. Accept everything that has happened as it is and hope that time will bring you back together. You will be surprised at how people will once again grow fond of each other slowly.</p>
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		<title>How To Make A Marriage Stronger By Focusing On Patience Instead Of Pride</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 15:52:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lorlene Simmons</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some times in a rocky relationship, it is normal for one person to confide in the notion that they are not the cause of all the troubles.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some times in a rocky relationship, it is normal for one person to confide in the notion that they are not the cause of all the troubles.</p>
<p>In many cases, we keep fishing out those wrongs that the other partner has ever committed throughout the relationship and use this as ammunition to show how bad the other partner is. All this is done to portray a holier than thou image.</p>
<p>You should avoid this one mistake no matter how harmless it may seem.</p>
<p>Rise to the occasion and handcuff your egos. Avoid the chest thumping, play the black sheep just this once, and watch it pay dividends</p>
<p>The most effective way to save a marriage is by swallowing one&#8217;s pride and being able to see own mistakes and owning up to them. You would be surprised how such things if ignored can work to ruin a relationship.</p>
<p>Sometimes it is really not about who made the mistake per se; but when you fail to see or try to understand your partner&#8217;s point of view; it might directly contribute to the breakdown in the relationship.</p>
<p>Remember that ego is not the priority here. Your staying in a relationship should be the key objective. Seek to consolidate your gains by letting it be a two-way situation. Air your opinions but do not be deaf to her. You will with time experience how your act of maturity led her to accept that she could have been the one to blame.</p>
<p>All human beings have egos that need to be fed from time to time, but once in a while people get to realize that they had actually made mountains out of molehills. It is always difficult to admit mistakes for fear of being seen as weak and vulnerable in the eyes of the other, so it is easy to overreact when trying to protect one&#8217;s image.</p>
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		<title>A Man&#8217;s Secrets To Successful Online Dating</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 11:20:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gail Jones</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many have taken to online dating like ducks take to water because it works or, at least, it can work. Women are, more often, terrified of meeting a man that they have been chatting to online.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People have taken to online dating like ducks take to water because it works or, at least, it can work. Women are, more often, terrified of meeting a man that they have been chatting to online.</p>
<p>All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen and, I must say that they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That&#8217;s not only wise but vital. So what is a nice guy to do? You aren&#8217;t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for the right girl for you.</p>
<p>You must be patient above all else. Don&#8217;t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and amiable until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don&#8217;t attempt to hurry her into meeting you one on one. She will only think that you are desperate or a pervert. Be patient, patient, patient!.</p>
<p>Just be absolutely honest about what you look like and your job. A strong relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually, she will discover the truth anyway and then you are back to square one again. </p>
<p>A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just of your head. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn&#8217;t just see your head, would she?</p>
<p>Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she may like to bring a friend with her.</p>
<p>After all, you have nothing to hide, have you? And everything to gain. You&#8217;ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a few pictures of you. So, the only thing left to do is to is make her feel safe meeting you.</p>
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		<title>Effective Ways To Have Your Ex Run After You Again</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 18:27:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Helga Thornton</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So you want your ex boyfriend back? Well, you're going to have to be tricky. Being obvious won't work. Here are some sneaky tips to help you play on the psychological principle of people wanting what they can't have. Are you ready to make him jealous and turn the tables? Read on.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So you want your ex boyfriend back? Well, you&#8217;re going to have to be tricky. Being obvious won&#8217;t work. Here are some sneaky tips to help you play on the psychological principle of people wanting what they can&#8217;t have. Are you ready to make him jealous and turn the tables? Read on.</p>
<p>First you need to realize that there are several different ways of going about this. If you appeal to what he really likes, other than you, you&#8217;re more likely to have success.</p>
<p>There are three ways that are really easy to do. Any one of these should tip him over into being very jealous.</p>
<p>1. If you really want your ex boyfriend back start dating someone. Anyone you date will cause some jealousy. For maximum effect, date one of his friends. This will make your ex extremely jealous.</p>
<p>A jealous ex boyfriend is a lot more likely to take you back. He&#8217;ll realize what he lost when he lost you, and he&#8217;ll be driven back to you. It&#8217;s human nature. You&#8217;ll seem even more attractive, once he realizes that other guys want to date you.</p>
<p>2. Many guys will get jealous if you go out and have fun. They expect you&#8217;ll be sad and moping after a breakup. When you go out with friends or colleagues, and still have a life, this bothers them. Some men will ask a girl out again just because they can&#8217;t believe she could get over them so easily!</p>
<p>3. Dangle his favorite hobby or band in front of him. If your ex is a huge fan of a band or a sports team, you want to try to get tickets to a big game or a concert. This will surely make him jealous!</p>
<p>If you do this, he&#8217;ll associate you with things he likes. This will make him more positively inclined to you which will help you get him back.</p>
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		<title>Tips To Repair A Torn Relationship With Your Ex</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jun 2010 14:11:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jane Orange</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You and your partner have broken up. You both said hurtful things, and it got ugly. You wish it hadn't, and are willing to forgive and forget if you could just get them back, but you don't know how. You wish you could get your ex back.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You and your partner have broken up. You both said hurtful things, and it got ugly. You wish it hadn&#8217;t, and are willing to forgive and forget if you could just get them back, but you don&#8217;t know how. You wish you could get your ex back.</p>
<p>Here are tips for mending your broken relationship, and starting over with your ex.</p>
<p>1. Know your own expectations. What ideals do you hold about relationships? Often, people are unrealistic in their expectations. Are you too distant, and expect your partner to be independent? Or are you too clingy and overly-dependent? Either one is negative, you need to find a middle ground.</p>
<p>2. Once you both have had time to cool off, start communicating again. Don&#8217;t go right into the relationship issues at first. Start with casual, non-confrontational conversations. If your ex isn&#8217;t ready for this yet, you need to give them more time and try again later.</p>
<p>3. Don&#8217;t brood or obsess. You want to have a full, healthy life in the mean time. Your ex should see you as a person who is whole and functioning, not as a needy basket case who buckles under stress. Don&#8217;t let yourself go. Make time to have fun with friends, and maybe look into a hobby or two.</p>
<p>4. Have an open, honest discussion about the breakup with your ex. You need to be honest with one another. Wait until you are both ready, though, so this talk doesn&#8217;t degenerate into blaming.</p>
<p>You need to discuss what was wrong, and how the breakup happened. You want to make sure you know this to keep it from happening again.</p>
<p>You may still have more questions about getting back together, like &#8220;what do I do now,&#8221; and &#8220;when will this stop hurting,&#8221; and &#8220;how long will they stay mad,&#8221; and &#8220;why won&#8217;t they talk to me yet.&#8221; This is normal.</p>
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		<title>Signs That A Woman Is Interested In You</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jun 2010 13:33:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charles Taylor</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It can be hard for some people to decipher what a woman's body language is trying to tell them. Other people just do not seem to have that problem, and that is why they never have a problem with getting women.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It can be hard for some people to decipher what a woman&#8217;s body language is trying to tell them. Other people just do not seem to have that problem, and that is why they never have a problem with getting women.</p>
<p>Some people are just a lot better at reading the signals than others, and here are a few tips on what you should look for.</p>
<p>1. Touch &#8211; you may notice that women tend to touch you as you are talking. Sometimes they will tap you on the arm or they may try to pick a bit of dust off your clothing, or touch you in other ways. This is normally a good sign that they are interested in you.</p>
<p>2. When they start to question you about whether you have a girlfriend or whether you are married can also be a sign that they are finding out whether or not you are spoken for.</p>
<p>If it is the woman that instigates the conversation about partners then this may be a sign that they are genuinely interested in you and finding out your availability.</p>
<p>3. If a woman makes eye contact wit you it used to be a good sign of their intentions of getting to know you better. Although in today&#8217;s society it is now jus a polite way of talking to people.</p>
<p>That would be different if she made eye contact and also used one of the other signs above when talking to you. Then this is a good sign that she is probably interested in you.</p>
<p>There are many different ways that a woman can use to indicate she is interested. The above are just a few signs that may encourage you to take another step towards getting to know them better.</p>
<p>If you stay alert and be aware of the woman&#8217;s body language you should be able to safely read the signs to find out exactly what the woman is trying to tell you.</p>
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		<title>Relationship Help &#8211; Do Husband Need This?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jun 2010 10:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Kubinski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You have problems with your spouse? You unhappy in marriage? You can't find understanding with your spouse? You can visit a marriage counsel to find a way out.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have problems with your spouse? You unhappy in marriage? You can&#8217;t find understanding with your spouse? You can visit a marriage counsel to find a way out.</p>
<p>Who marriage council is useless for? Regardless on nonscientific surveys, in which marriage counselors gain lowest marks from all other physicians, last study of AAMFT (American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy) indicates that more and more families appeal to marriage council to obtain professional help and to avert problems in relationships.</p>
<p>This research shows that nowadays marriage council shifts from the field of &#8220;healing&#8221; to the field of &#8220;prophylaxis&#8221;. This will cause that influence of marriage counseling on number of &#8220;happy marriages&#8221; will increase in future.</p>
<p>One of the studies (performed by John Gottman &#8211; doctor of philosophy, psychologist, who has been working for many years on problems of marriage stability and relationships analysis, founder of Gottmans Institute) was performed to find solutions for couples to improve stability of marriage and to prevent problems which can cause a divorce.</p>
<p>There was another interesting data, which was collected by AAMFT study &#8211; they allocate characteristics, which families will get the most benefit from marriage counseling and which &#8211; the smallest, the most valuable of these characteristics are stated above.</p>
<p>At the other side, couples which marry at appropriate time, when both of spouses satisfied in their life and tolerant to foibles, will surely have problems, but they can resolve them without professional assistance and may visit marriage council only for cultivation of relationships and prevention of problems.</p>
<p>Based on this tips you can decide by oneself &#8211; do you need marriage counseling or not. Or, maybe, this information will help you to find solutions or improvements together with you spouse.</p>
<p>Good relationships between spouses &#8211; the &#8220;foundation stone&#8221; of happy marriage.</p>
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