Getting back your girlfriend after a fight or breakup can be a frightening task. Before you go for it you probably need to ask yourself one or two questions. Most critical, are you wanting her back as you truly love her for who she is or because you would be ashamed to be seen by your friends without your ‘trophy’? Was your relationship a positive one, where common ideals and goals were shared or did the relationship consist mostly of fights and disagreements?

If you think you and your girlfriend have something special and you know way down inside that she is the love of your life, then you owe it to yourself and her to make a truthful attempt at getting her back. If this is the case don’t sit and stew and let your intelligence play thru ‘what if’ or ‘if only I had done that’ scenarios – this is simply not helpful.

You could be going through all forms of emotions ; hate, regret, fear and aching. That’s OK, it is usual. Realize though, all the backwards and forwards only wears you out. Make a decision to allow her go or get her back – that’s it!

If you make a decision to get her back, then you must decide how. You can go the direct, honest and passionate route, ( and this is what worked for me ), If that is all it takes consider yourself lucky. Just tell her you adore her and need her back and that you are ready to work at the relationship. If you’re feeling you definitely made a mistake you have to be ready to ask for forgiveness, if you are feeling she was the one who screwed-up, you must be prepared to excuse and not dwell on past insults or grievances.

If you need to be more manipulative – and you know she’s jealous, just her seeing you with a fascinating lady may be enough to send her running back to you. You know your lady and if you are feeling that may work, go for it – just realize – that it may backfire.

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