The Filipina dating scene is a mixed of tradition and culture from other country. Though it might be derived from other countries, all considerations one should take are perhaps much similar to those with the female sex. Here are some guides to those that are new to the Filipino dating scene.

Pre-date Preparations

Filipinas are hygienic by nature. Daily bathing is common among Filipino practice. Some may think that dirty-looking or the ragged type can impress the females especially the Filipinas, that’s a misconception up till now that many people believed. If you aim to impress her, the first thing you’d want to do before the date is to take a good, long bath. Of course, you have to make other hygiene considerations as well. Here’s a checklist that might be helpful:

-Is there dirt under your nails?

-Have you gargled with mouthwash?

-Have you combed your hair or washed it clean?

-Are your shoes neat and clean?

-Are you wearing clean, ironed clothes?

-Are you well-shaven?

The saying first impression lasts, applies strongly to the dating scene. Nobody is expected to look immaculate every single day. But looking unclean and smelling awful will give your date’s notion that you’re an unhygienic person. This will prevent her from wanting to see you again and finding out what a great person you really are inside.

The Actual Date

Whatever you do don’t be late. Turning up late will send all the wrong impression on you. She might think that she was stood up just because you arrived late. It is common courtesy to arrive before she does. Any earlier than five minutes before the set time will pressure here and will speed up her pre-date preparations.

Be a gentleman. Women, whether old-fashioned or feminist, still can’t fault a man for opening the door or pulling a chair for her. When it comes to Filipina dating in particular, a gentleman is always favored. Try to make her feel like a lady.

Don’t be stingy with sincere compliments. If you think her hair looks great, tell her so. The best compliments are those that are genuinely meant, and specific. Women loves compliments but too much will make her think that you’re trying to flirt with her. You must never tell white lies, for instance telling her that she’s very slim when in fact she is quite chubby. Women have powerful instincts and she’ll surely see through them.

Listen to what your date has to say. Women like men who are truly interested in what she has to say. Refrain from hogging the conversational floor or from talking about yourself all night. While you would like to impress her, it will have the opposite effect if she will end up thinking that you are disgustingly self-centered

Don’t just act as if you’re listening. Ask questions when you’re curious or interested about certain things she said, which you will be anyway, if you truly pay attention.

Pick up the tab. It is customary for gentlemen in the Filipino dating scene to pay for a date. If the two of you enter a commitment, however, she will no longer expect you to keep picking up the tab. Don’t worry.

After the Date

There is no right answer to whether you should kiss on the first date or more. This depends strongly on your date’s interpretation or body language if she wants to do it with you or not.

There is no pressure in calling after the date. In fact if you do not intend to call her then you don’t have to. However if you’re interested for a second date, get her number give her a call and set up for a second date, of course that is if she wants a second date.

The Filipina dating scene is much like as of the dating scenes with the rest of the world. Your success will depend on how you did well on your first date. If by any chance, you’re first date is a disaster don’t get discourage instead, consider this a valuable lesson or practice for when the right one comes along.

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