Clueless about where to start when it comes to picking up women?

Here are a few tips about how to pick up women that will set you off on the right path to meeting the women of your dreams. What you’ll get is some hands on advice to get you success NOW. Take action on what you read and things will improve for you right away. But firstly let’s talk about the things that you DON’T need to focus on.

You DON’T need a lean muscular physique with come to bed good looks.

This big mistake in judgment occurs with most men. Fact is that 85% of women value how a man makes them FEEL over how he looks. So if you reckon you’re not the hottest looking guy out there, don’t sweat it. It’s not crucial to success.

You DON’T have to be rich, spend a lot of money or drive a hot set of wheels!

A lot of guys I know don’t drive flashy cars, some don’t drive at all and spend less than $35 on a date. But they are never without women. Their skill is in getting her to like them. If she likes you, she’ll overlook little things like what kind of car you drive or how much cash you flash. Did you get that? If she LIKES you!

last but certainly not least… DON’T focus on being INTERESTING!

You DON’T need to have or be any of the things that you thought you needed to be, to attract women.

The truth of the matter is that there really are no excuses. None of the things that are holding you back need to hold you back when it comes to picking up women. She’s just interested in the genuine guy inside. The one with the great personality. Letting him out is easy if you just relax.

Quit thinking about yourself. How interesting you are is not important. Women don’t want to hear your impressive stories about yourself. It tells them you’re only interested in you, and that is an instant turnoff. Why not turn it around and work on being INTERESTED in HER. LISTEN to what she’s saying. Give her positive feedback. Now you’ll have her attention and she’ll LOVE you for it. Go ahead and try it.

You need practice to build your confidence.

When you first try these new tactics, go out often and talk to all the women you can. No need to go to night clubs and high pressure dating environments. You can go anywhere to meet women.

What’s important is that you get out every day and go talk to some women. With practice you’ll soon be a master of the art of picking up women.

Look and smell good.

When you go out to pick up women, make an effort to look good. I said look good, not ‘good looking’!There’s a difference because you have control over how your hair and clothing looks and how you smell.

Do the best you can with what you have. Get a fashion conscious female friend to help if you’re totally lost. Looking good gives you confidence which makes picking up women easier.

If you want to spend money on something to help you pick up women, consider buying a good quality cologne. Women love a guy who smells good. Don’t try and save money and buy a cheap one, women will be turned off by it. Better to leave it alone altogether if you can’t afford it.

For steps to pick up women.

Here’s a series of 4 steps to picking up women you can actually repeat time and time again and get the same results.

Find a woman

speak to her

Gain Rapport

Build Attraction

These four simple steps are all you need! You’ll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport with them, you’ll easily be able to build attraction with them too. So your job now is to get better at each step.

You can do it!

The Author was inspired to writeThe Art of Approaching “to share my methods and hard work so that other guys don’t have to go through what I did to get good with women.” Be sure to check out his homepage and sign up for his free newsletter

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